Steph

I’m curious to know your relationship to your body. Are you getting enough touch right now? Are you experiencing pleasure on a daily basis?

I offer erotic touch massage for both men and women as a way to help them connect with their body and what is going on inside.Society can be so busy and fast paced that we may leave our bodies behind altogether at times.

As a result of this our bodies can suffer and we can become stressed and develop all sorts or ailments and illnesses.

By coming back to the sensations in our bodies it can be like coming home to our vitality, our well-being and our pleasure.

As a child, I didn’t get the touch I longed for. Babies and small children need LOTS of closeness and touch. It’s as important as eating and sleeping. Without it our sense of belonging and safety in the world is often compromised. It can also lead to intimacy problems later in life.

In 1997 I trained for three years and qualified as a shiatsu therapist with the Bristol School of Shiatsu and this was my first introduction to the magical world of touch therapy. I couldn’t get enough and felt like I had a 27-year deficit to make up for.

In 2022 I updated my massage tool kit with erotic touch which felt like the missing link. I now realise that whilst giving people a shiatsu massage was enjoyable and healing, it felt like a very important part of their bodies was being left out of the picture altogether. The most sacred part of ourselves.

I’m blown away by the power and magic of what erotic touch can offer a person. Not only an opportunity to release old traumas, strong emotions, shame, self-hatred, and work on sexual issues but a chance to step into a place of self-love, a stronger connection to one’s senses, a greater capacity for pleasure and a whole new way to experience ourselves.

One of my all-time favourite quotes is ‘All Sickness is homesickness’ and I fully believe that massage and especially erotic touch massage can assist us on our journey home to ourselves where the most profound healing can take place and the opportunity to become all that we are and experience the infinite pleasure that we are all designed for.

My sessions begin with a time to check in with yourself and share your desires and intentions and any boundaries you may have. It’s also a time to acknowledge any fears that may be present.

I work in a fully consensual way and tailor my touch around your needs and wants regarding where and how you like to be touched. I encourage you to check in with your body and ask it what it wants in this moment.

I can offer full body touch including genital, anal and prostate massage. It is totally up to you and what you desire.

This is purely one-way touch only and I will remain fully clothed throughout the massage. I do not offer a sexual service, this time if for you and your relationship with your body.

I have lots of enquires from men asking about ‘hand relief’ and ‘ejaculation’. I’d like to let you know that I do not offer hand relief, I offer massage strokes. Ejaculation is welcome if it happens however I will never make it a goal. The goal is to feel and build on the erotic energy in your body. In fact some of my clients say that they feel better when they don’t ejaculate as ejaculation can leave them feeling depleted and when they refrain they leave with more vitality. This is an individual choice and I won’t be leading you either way.