Aisha Paris Smith, sexologist, bodyworker and life coach. Aisha blends her conscious approach to life with the profound experience of being in a body. She embraces all that it means to be a human with flesh, blood, bones, ego and eros. She experiences every day the wisdom of her body and has seen clients transform through the power of somatic methods.
Aisha specialises in hands-on sex coaching, offering her clients a direct and practical approach to reconnecting with and reclaiming all aspects of their bodies. For Aisha, this work is about more than pleasure – it’s also about finding safety, freeing self-expression and integrating shadow.
She works with the principle that when we can be with and integrate all parts of ourselves, we will each have a greater sense of who we are, where our individual purpose and pleasure lie and how to create a life we love.
She came into this work inspired to support couples create a relationship that works on all levels. Today, her clientele ranges from couples to teenagers and the elderly – people of all ages, descriptions and identities.
Aisha is fully accredited by the ACSB and a professional member of the Association of Somatic & Integrative Sexologists.
Sessions are client-led and co-created. You aren’t a patient to be fixed but a client who will receive support to find their way to fulfill their objective and intentions. Sessions are 75 minutes, 2.5 hours or a day-long mini-retreat, available in packages.
Here are just a few of the tools available to you in session:
Somatic coaching
Adult Sex education
Body focusing
Wheel of consent (Betty Martin)
Identifying your wants, desires and boundaries
Body poem
Body massage
Genital and anal mapping
Self-pleasure coaching
If you are interested in learning more and setting up an initial chat then visit my website or book a first call or session in here.
To work with Aisha feels as though you have the world’s best cheerleader on your side. She is the perfect blend of tender, nurturing care but she will also call you out in the most loving way when you are playing small and standing in your own way. Sessions flow effortlessly between space to share and to just 'be' but then moving into a practical exercise when it's time to take action to move through whatever is coming up.
Lucy
Meeting Aisha and our work together was a highlight of 2022 for me, starting at an erotic life drawing class in the summer. I’d felt a strong pull to take part even though it was completely out of my comfort zone and I found the experience empowering, liberating and life-changing. I have gone from someone who previously hated their body to now life modeling on a regular basis and the confidence to do so is down to the intimate and safe space Aisha held in that time. I now have the pictures framed on my bedroom wall and use the feelings of admiration for my body in that moment as a reminder of the positivity and strength of love I am capable of feeling for myself. After this initial meeting I followed Aisha’s’ informative yet playful social media and shortly realised I needed to invest in some coaching sessions with her. I wanted to open myself up more to touch and play as these were elements of my life that had been sorely missed for a number of years. We worked both online and in person and I found each session deeply moving and helpful, with nuggets of wisdom I will carry and remind myself of for years to come. I have worked with a great number of therapists in different forms over the years and as much as many quote themselves as holding “non-judgemental space”, Aisha is the only one I (and my body) have felt that to be 100% true with. I feel this is what brings greatest value to the experience of working with her as it is an incredibly rare quality and skill. My final transformation of the year facilitated by Aisha was an offering to the experience of a Lomi-Lomi massage. I purposefully did not research it but followed my bodies “yes” and went in with no expectations. Due to a lot of physical trauma and being simply too scared to let people touch me for a number of years, I could not have imagined a more gentle yet powerful and necessary way to end those years of fear and physical isolation. Not only was the massage itself wonderful, enabling release, reconnection and greater embodiment but I am also still feeling the effects of the spiritual and emotional healing a number of weeks afterwards. I am able to access emotion and vulnerability in a way never known before, my heart has stayed open and my drive for pleasure has returned to a level not felt in years. I have been able to remove emotional and physical blocks between myself and family members held for decades, the healing effects of Aisha’s touch have not only been felt by myself but continue to ripple out to others too. It is miraculous. In many ways this year I have come home to myself after years of being alone in the wilderness and for that, I’m not sure there will ever be enough words to express the gratitude I feel for meeting Aisha and experiencing her presence. Aisha is as is her work; gentle, powerful, beautiful and disarming. She is an embodiment of true goddess energy - which I do not say lightly - there is something about her energy and work which unlocked my heart in a way I have only previously experienced through divine love. That is how I know God works through her and with that, there is no greater testimony to her kindness and immense gifts. In short: work with her, you will not regret it.”
Theo
I have just completed a cycle of sessions with Aisha feeling empowered and more determined than ever to live a life of joy, of pleasure and one in which I prioritise my own needs fully for perhaps the first time. Working with Aisha will change your life. I couldn't recommend sessions with her more.'
Alice
Aisha was patient and supportive. I always felt comfortable and in control of the sessions – everything was done at my speed. My biggest learning experience came from the giving and receiving sessions. Having spent most of my life unable to make eye contact with beautiful women, being touched by one was a massive hurdle that I eventually started feeling slightly more comfortable with.
Matt
