Steph

Hello. I am a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, Qualified Shiatsu therapist, trained in co-counseling and Listening Skills and Relationship Polarity.

I began my journey to embodiment in 1997 at the age of 24 when I undertook a three-year training with the Bristol School of Shiatsu. At the time I had been experiencing a lot of panic and free-floating anxiety in my life as a result of early trauma from my childhood. Engaging in a three-year touch therapy course was the perfect antidote to my early life where I often longed for physical affection that I did not receive.

This was just the beginning of my journey towards embodiment and 25 years later after becoming a Mum and working with several different modalities including body-based psychotherapy and co-counseling and going through an early menopause I read the book ‘Pussy, a reclamation’ by Regena Thomashauer which awakened my sexuality in a whole new way. As a result of this I discovered the Sexological Bodywork training and decided to dive right in.

I love holding a safe, trauma-informed environment for people to go deep and unravel anything that no longer serves them so that they can be free to live lives that are happy and fully self-expressed and where pleasure and eros are present throughout their everyday life.

Since completing the sexological bodywork course I have since dived deep into a lifelong relationship polarity training which now forms the basis for how I work.
I’ve realised that since embarking on this work that many couples are not experiencing sexual fulfillment in their relationships and I’ve learnt through the polarity training that a big reason for this is that their relationships are depolarised. I feel excitement and passion about supporting individuals and couples to move towards a more polarised relationship which can result in a much more fulfilling sex life together as well as fulfilment on all other levels.
Please let me know if you’d like to learn more about polarity and I can share some resources with you or if you’d like to bring it into our sessions together.

Sexological Bodywork holds so many different possibilities for ways of working.

*Learning to ask for what you truly want or learning to say no with ease
*Wanting to be more in your body instead of your head and accessing more of your sensory world
*Ejaculatory choice whether you ejaculate too quickly or not at all.
*Opening up to more pleasure in your body
*Experiencing different kinds of orgasm
*Working through your fears around intimacy
*Working though experiences of painful sex
*Learning about how different parts of your genitalia feel through mapping
*Working through body shame or dislike of body parts and developing a healthy loving relationship with your body.
*Learning new ways to self-pleasure
*Working on your attachment to porn with embodied practices.
And much more!
A session will last anywhere between 1 and 3 hours depending on what you would like. Every session is a co-creation between myself and the client and choice and consent are the foundation.

Ways of working with you include:

*Body focusing
*Wheel of consent (Betty Martin)
*Looking wants and desires
*Body poem
*Bossy massage
*Active receiving of erotic touch and massage
*Genital and anal mapping
*Anal massage
*Self pleasure coaching
*Plus more!

If you are interested in learning more and setting up an initial chat then please text me (I do not answer calls to unknown phone numbers) on 07915386803 or email me at cornishsteph@hotmail.com