Tantric massage by Cedar Ocean
West England – Bristol, Bath, Glastonbury and Gloucester
Have my undivided attention, warmth and loving touch all to yourself.
Hi, my name is Cedar Ocean and I am so glad that you are here.
I am a lovable, imperfect human being who is passionate about healing through pleasure. Using pleasure as medicine I create a loving and safe environment where you can relax, feel pleasure and find acceptance as you are.
I have a slow, gentle and playful approach that allows for transformation and fun. I love weaving the unique mix of cheeky mischief with intuitive wisdom to allow clients to soften and open into their own unique experience of joy, pleasure and embodied healing.
Through being in a long-term partnership I am constantly learning about the messiness and complexity of relationships. On a good day I am a masterful relator and I also know the cost of working through trauma and how lonely the journey can be sometimes. I take great joy in supporting my clients with relational skills to create intimate relationships, both with themselves and others.
It is important to me that each client feels safe, secure and accepted within the safe container that I create. I am working on showing up for myself in this way, so that I can do this for my clients with greater depth.
As a queer practitioner I offer an inclusive, sex-positive and trauma-aware approach to tantric massage. I work gently and slowly, tending to each client’s nervous system with great attentive care and undivided attention. With my highly attuned ‘spider-senses’ I support clients to grow in self-awareness and attunement to themselves and others.
Work Experience:
I am a trained and certified tantric massage therapist. I have also recently completed tantric sex surrogacy (surrogate partner therapy).
While I am not currently offering tantric sexual surrogacy I have been weaving some of these elements into my tantric massage sessions with my long-term, regular clients. I am looking to offer the surrogate partner therapy in the future, so watch this space (or feel to contact me if you are curious about this).
I am a trained relationship and consciousness coach and facilitator. Before doing tantric massage I worked in the realm of alternative education creating learning communities for over 20 years. I have run various workshops on boundaries, conflict transformation, acknowledging feelings and other relationship skills. I also trained facilitators and worked with team dynamics.
I am passionate about relationships and I believe that through intimate and attuned relating we can change the world. And it is important to put the way we relate to ourselves at the centre of that.
I offer tantric massage sessions for people of all genders and sexualities.
While my sessions have a clear structure and flow, I work intuitively within the safety of the agreed boundaries. I have a slow and gentle approach that allows for safety to be created and therefore intimacy to grow. I love being responsive to clients and I particularly enjoy going deeper with regular clients, where I can tailor their sessions to the unique human that they are.
A massage with me starts with a gentle, grounding meditation to allow us to drop into our bodies. Next we embark on eye gazing, entering that dance of both seeing and being seen. After this I gently lead us through a mutual touch exercise that allows us to see each other without using our eyes. Now that we have experienced some co-regulation and safety together I invite you to receive a gentle and blissfully relaxing full body massage. This flows into the stillness of chakra balancing, which gently invites you to feel into any blocks in the flow of your sexual energy and deepen your self-awareness. Most often this then takes us into a yoni or lingam massage. Working with massage, arousal and breath I support you to learn the art of spreading pleasure throughout your body and bringing your sexual energy towards yourself. This part of the massage is a beautiful, accepting and non-goal-oriented dance between us.
I work with individuals and couples.
I received a few extraordinary tantric massages from Cedar Ocean. The entire experience felt like a hug because she was so thoughtful about every detail. She invited me into her cosy, beautifully arranged cabin, with warm smells and soothing music. The space she had created felt sacred and safe.
I left feeling seen in my entirety and filled up by the nurturing. I highly recommend this practitioner, she is ultra warm, straightforward, clear and intuitive.
Roma Norriss, 41, Relationship-focused parenting consultant
If it wasn't for work (and budget!) I would book another session for tomorrow.This has never happened to me before, and I think it's due to your kindness and the gentleness of the session.
Anon - 35, engineer
In this space I was able to luxuriate in the sensuality of my body. I was able to let go and give myself over to the enjoyment of being carefully and tenderly massaged and touched. It felt liberating to be fully naked with my genitals exposed in both states of rest and arousal and not be expected to perform ~ there was a lovely innocence in this ~ it felt really good and natural ~ total acceptance. It felt liberating and healing to have my arousal witnessed and my cock taken hold of both confidently and tenderly. The pleasure of the tantric lingam massage was exquisite and extended and quite unlike either intercourse or masturbation. I felt my whole body energised and my mind calmed. This beautiful intimacy felt like a divine gift ~ it felt like being recharged and refreshed. Throughout the session there was an absence of any shame or guilt.
Stuart, 68, tantra massage therapist and writer.
I really enjoyed the session and I had a very relaxed journey home - and all yesterday too actually. Highlights for me I think were the breathing, staring and mutual touch moments which really helped me settle in. The massage was also great - in particular the base of the spine when on my front and also the solar plexus when on my back but generally all of it was just as I’d hoped. You were very kind and gentle and that was perfect.
Anon
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