Tantra Massage London | Tantric Bodywork, Intimacy & Embodiment
For men, women and couples who are curious about tantra, ready to move beyond surface-level sex and experience deeper intimacy, pleasure, connection and aliveness.
Available for tantra massage, couples tantric rituals, Epic Lover retreat days and coaching for performance anxiety, sexless relationships & deeper tantric and sexual exploration: London and online.
MY STORY
Once trapped in a sexless marriage and disconnected from my own pleasure, I felt unloved, undesired and unable to express my true sexual needs. That experience became the catalyst for my work in tantra, somatic embodiment, sex coaching and conscious sexuality work. Through tantric massage, attending temples, training in tantra, somatics and embodiment practices, I rebuilt my relationship with my body, my desire and my sense of aliveness.
It led me into this path of supporting others with intimacy issues, sexual disconnection and relationship challenges, and more than that, it connected me to something greater – the divine, and how connected sex and spirituality truly are.
Tantra Massage
Tantra massage, to me, is about helping men switch off from daily life and receive devotional touch, without any pressure to perform or get it right.
For 2–3 hours, you receive undivided attention. You can relax, get out of the thinking mind and come back into the sensations of your body.
You will receive loving, nurturing touch with a focus on lingam massage. Not only is it pleasurable, but it is relaxing, expansive and very transformative.
Depending on your needs, you can learn how to circulate your sexual energy so you can last longer, stay harder for longer, feel pleasure throughout your body and build the kind of presence that makes you the lover she craves.
How I Help You
I work with men, women and couples who long for deeper connection, who are done with surface-level sex and want something more real, more sacred;
It’s way more than just a massage or a session.
It’s a way of connection, it’s a way of life – that the fast paced, material driven, influencer world we live in makes very difficult.
If you’re reading this, perhaps you’re done with feeling alone, misunderstood or under-appreciated.
Perhaps you’re ready for more from your relationships, beyond just the sex, and ready to become more fully who you really are.
My work is about helping you find your authentic expression in sex and intimacy. No more hiding, pretending or performing in your relationships. I help you overcome sexual shame, build confidence in intimacy and express your desires honestly.
My work helps you reconnect with your body, deepen your capacity for pleasure and intimacy, feel more confident in your sexuality, and express your desires more honestly. Through tantra, somatic sex therapy, breath-work, embodiment and nervous system work, we create the space for you to feel more present, connected and fully yourself.
Tantric Bodywork Sessions For Men
For men, I work with sexual performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low libido and relationship intimacy problems, creating a safe, non-judgmental space to reconnect with your body, your desire and your confidence. It’s a devotional session in which can let go of pressure to perform and receive undivided attention.
Couples Tantric Rituals / Playshops / Intimacy Coaching
For couples, I offer support if you’re exploring tantra for the first time, wanting to deepen your sexual and spiritual connection, bring more aliveness into your sex life, or develop more conscious communication and intimacy and ultimately to deepen and expand an already solid foundation.
Education:
ISTA LEVEL 1 and 2 – Spiritual, Sexual Shamanic Experience
300 Hour Tantra, Somatics and Embodied Yoga Facilitator training
Cultivating Kundalini Training – Bynoi DeSouza
Vagina Awakening Training – Grace Hazel
Multiple 5 Day tantra trainings in Ibiza
Wild Woman Embodiment Retreats
Somatic Therapy Training
Feminine Embodiment Coaching
IQM – Vibrational Healing
Pricing
• 2 Hour Men’s Tantra Massage £500
• 3 Hour Men’s Deep Tantric Bodywork £750
• 2 Hour Couples Tantric Ritual £800
• Couples Playshop from £1,000
Upon Application:
• Epic Lover – Weekend Intensive for men
• The Lover She Craves– 6 Month Mentorship for Men
• Wingwoman Experience London for men
• Deeply Connected – Couples Coaching & Retreats
• Alive – 3 -6 month Embodiment Coaching for Women
“I had a three-hour tantric massage session with Abi in London. From the consultation call I had high hopes for the session, but meeting and working with Abi exceeded these. Right from my arrival it was obvious how open, warm, friendly, welcoming and knowledgeable she was. She tuned into my energy right away and immediately began tailoring the session and exercises to align with me.
Abi demonstrated her wide knowledge of Tantra and her deep skills throughout the session, helping me address energy blockages and working with me to move my energy throughout my body. Once we began the massage element of the session I was in a constant orgasmic state, enjoying many multiple full body orgasms throughout the session. This was a truly deep and transformational experience; it was also fun - all down to Abi’s amazing personality. I’m looking forward to seeing her again soon.”
"Thank you so much again for such an incredible session. Absolutely unbelievable, mind-blowing, pure magic. It was deeply healing, nourishing and rebalancing. This is EXACTLY what I needed, couldn't ask for more."
"Thank you Abi, I am excited we can communicate this way and that you are so open to receiving my desires. I do really enjoy our sessions on so many levels. Not only do you fire my deepest desires and make me wonder how I want to express that, you also make it fun. A special place to be."
Self Intimacy Coaching:
"Where to begin?! I often thought about our sessions and the struggles I felt back then. I wanted to be vulnerable and to follow my dreams, believe in myself more and open up to let other people come closer.
Since then a lot has changed… I am finding more balance in myself. I feel my feelings so much better in my body. I had such a long time not felt anything or ignored it. I have had deeper and healthier intimate relationships. With women, I shared my insecurities, I followed my dream to work with people and started with my dream job in May this year. I now set healthy boundaries and am happy in my own company. I feel so much lighter in every aspect."
Abi, you have completely changed pleasure for me, and it has already been impacting the connection I have with lovers, allowing me to confidently ask for what I want, and set boundaries in a way they can be received. Thank you.
Bodywork:
"I met Abi in a moment I was releasing and healing from a relationship break-up. When I met her I felt to try lingam therapy. She took me from a physical point of a conditioned male mind to a deep journey though my deepest emotions.
I felt the rise of my root sexual energy moving through my body, getting to my heart and connecting with my mind. This gave me 2 big messages about my personal inner work. I’m very happy to get this information that today allowed me to release a deep emotional hook-up to a relation. I now recognize the gift that women are giving me. And it helped connect me to my mom, as a woman and the gratitude I have for her, and all women. I’m here and I’m now. Knowing I could choose to struggle or to release and use that struggle to repair my wounds. Thank you Abi."
Bodywork:
"At one point, I felt as though I was levitating. My whole body was tingling, everything felt connected. I couldn't tell one limb apart from the other. Wow."
Abi demonstrated her wide knowledge of Tantra and her deep skills throughout the session, helping me address energy blockages and working with me to move my energy throughout my body. Once we began the massage element of the session I was in a constant orgasmic state, enjoying many multiple full body orgasms throughout the session. This was a truly deep and transformational experience, it was also fun - all down to Abi’s amazing personality. I’m looking forward to seeing her again soon.
Thank you Abi, I am excited we can communicate this way and that you are so open to receiving my desires. I do really enjoy our sessions on so many levels. Not only do you fire my deepest desires and make me wonder how I want to express that, you also make it fun. A special place to be.
After a few sessions, I feel good about who I really am, and the way I feel naturally about my sexuality and passion, and desires, all of the unspoken things us men keep hidden from the world and from ourselves.
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