Stella helps individuals and couples of all genders and sexual orientations address and overcome issues about sexuality, learn to discover and communicate about preferences and pleasure. Originally a licensed pharmacist in Germany with a public health degree. Stella found her way to somatic sexology via Tantra due to seeking help together with her then partner for the sexless relationship they found themselves in.
Tantra started a professional and self-development journey that led her to Joseph Kramer who founded the training in sexological bodywork in 2003. Stella got herself qualified in 2015 and added her certification in somatic sex education in 2017. She has worked as a coach on vocational training on two occasions and has been seeing her clients in her practice in London since 2015.
Stella has been on BBC One as a Touch expert, on Netflix as a somatic sexologist and has contributed in Cosmopolitan, Men’s health and many other magazines and online publications. She sees people for in-person sessions in Central London and online all over the world. Learn more about her work here
Somatic Sexology has the body as an important modality, which makes sessions very effective. While one-way touch, including intimate touch, is optional, and can be part of sessions, the body will always be involved in its sensing capacity and wisdom, and breathing techniques are an important tool to access this. Please also expect platonic self-touch, particularly at the beginning of each session. Most issues can be addressed on Zoom, however some work best in person.
Here is what I may be able to help you with:
Sexless marriages (both primary, and secondary)
Performance issues (premature and delayed ejaculation, psychogenic erectile dysfunction)
Pleasure mapping
Vaginal Mapping
Anal and Prostate Pleasure, and Sensation Mapping
Vaginismus and painful intercourse (psychogenic)
Back to sex after surgery – rediscovering confidence and physical pleasure
Back to sex and dating after separation
Back to pleasure after trauma (possibly alongside or after counselling/psychotherapy)
Back to sex after childbirth
Learn to orgasm
Learn to experience more powerful orgasms
Involve more of your body in sex
Watching too much porn
Masturbation coaching
Intimate touch tuition
Rediscover Eroticism in your relationship
Body Image and Confidence
Overcoming shame and sex negativity
Overthinking sex
Better sex in traditional and religious marital unions
Better Sex after menopause
Troublesome turn-ons
Finding out about your erotic blueprint
Basic Bdsm and power play explorations
sexual issues arising from gender dysphoria (possibly alongside/after counselling/psychotherapy)
and more…
Tantric and Taoist Bodywork are spiritual and energetic practices rooted in ancient Indian traditions — not sexual services. Sessions focus on breathwork and energy work, offering a deeply transformative experience of body, mind, and consciousness in support of self-awareness. This is not escorting, and it is not a substitute for it, and sessions do not — and never will — include sexual services of any kind. If you are looking for mutual touch, nudity, body-to-body contact, or ejaculation, this is not the right site for you.
However, if you are interested in genuine Tantra as a practice, we are glad to have you here. Genuine Tantric bodywork is centred on breath, energy, and the experience of higher consciousness — including through the transmutation of sexual energy. This work is grounded in sacred tradition and professional training.
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