seological therapist London

Kirstine Weaver

London

About

 

So many of our wounds are created in relationship with others; we need to work with others in order to heal those wounds. We’re not designed to do this work alone.

Hi, I’m Kirstine. My clients include healers, carers, and highly sensitive beings.

I’m a certified sexological bodyworker, working in the realms of consent, sex and masturbation coaching, conscious kink, erotic massage and scar tissue remediation. I’m trauma-informed, and hold space for people of all genders to slow down, connect to themselves and find healing in discovering their unique truth.

My personal exploration of freedom from gender socialisation and healing from chronic illness informs my approach to supporting my clients in alchemising patterns of stuckness, so they can show up with more care and authenticity for their own clients as a freer version of self.

Some examples of why you might choose to work with me are:

  • You wish to be witnessed in your full sexual expression
  • Tackling sexual shame, guilt or other blocks to pleasure
  • Expanding your capacity for pleasure
  • Exploring erotic possibilities as a trans or nonbinary person
  • To develop a more nourishing self pleasure practice
  • Being sexual with a disability
  • Exploring the edges of eroticism
  • Learning skills to help with sexual dysfunction, including vaginismus, vulvodynia, erectile problems, premature ejaculation
  • Reconnecting to sex after childbirth, menopause or medical intervention

… and many more!

What to expect

When you make an enquiry to work with me, I will send you a confidential intake form to complete, which I will then review. This will help to inform me in creating our session, which we will do together.

Sessions may include coaching, massage, breathwork, Wheel of Consent work or other somatic exercises. There will be homeplay activities to try out in between sessions.

bodywork

Free consultation calls can be booked in advance. Please email or leave a voicemail with your name, phone number and the type of work you would be interested in exploring with me. I will aim to get back to you within 48 hrs to schedule a call.

Hands-on bodywork

During any bodywork you are welcome to have as much or as little clothing on as you feel comfortable with. You are welcome and encouraged to change your mind about this and any other aspects of the session at any time.  I will remain clothed during the session and any erotic touch I give is directed by you, but one way, from me to you.

The power of Sexological Bodywork comes from conscious awareness of touch, sensation, and your bodily response. Unlike a traditional massage where the recipient tends to be passive, these sessions are based on active receiving, and I will encourage verbal interaction throughout so that feedback and consent are active and ongoing.

Sexological Bodyworkers are trained to provide genital and anal touch at the request of the client when it is deemed appropriate by the practitioner to support the learning objectives. Hands-on work is used to facilitate greater somatic awareness and experiential learning opportunities related to pleasure.

Online sessions are £180 for 90 minutes

In person sessions are a minimum of 3 hours, £120 an hour. I am based in London.

Services & Offerings

somatic sexologist

Testimonials

I felt completely held and safe by you - absolutely accepted for who and where I am.
Nina

I felt very safe in the session & it seemed to flow effortlessly & quite magically. I felt able to express myself freely in terms of inner sensations without fear of judgment. Kirstine has a natural calm curiosity and weaved a powerful session at the end of which l felt very comforted, uplifted & energetically held :)
Francine


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