shanti Kearney somatic sexologist London City

Shanti Kearney

London

About

Somatic Sex and Intimacy Coach
Sexological bodyworker
In-person and Online

 

I was always fascinated by sexuality and from quite a young age I had a strong desire to learn all that I could about it. I set out on a passionate journey of exploration and found that cultivating a sense of belonging and safety within my own body was the major turning point for me.

Through shadow integration, embodiment practices and building a repertoire of somatic tools, I was able to go from numb and disconnected to enlivened and orgasmic.

The work that I offer is informed by the lived experiences and personal transformations that I have navigated as well as the trainings I have done.

We live in these bodies that are covered in nerve endings to experience sensation, pleasure, and connection. I am a huge advocate for embodied pleasure because I believe that in feeling the pulse of our own aliveness, we discover greater clarity and confidence to create the kind of life and relationships that we deeply deserve and desire. Our eroticism is at the core of our being. When we feel fulfilled and thriving in this area of our lives, it ripples out and touches every other area.

The intention behind what I do is to support you to feel more connected with, safe and at home in your body so that you can enjoy the pleasure, joy and aliveness that comes from embodying your eroticism.

The areas I offer support with (this is not an exhaustive list):

  • Orgasmic literacy
  • Performance anxiety
  • Ejaculatory choice
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Intimacy issues with a partner
  • Pain or numbness during sex
  • Low or no libido
  • Feeling disconnected from the body and/or genitals.
  • Scar tissue remediation
  • Shame around sexuality or desires
  • Nervous system literacy
  • Body image
  • Sexual confidence and expression
  • Presence and connection to self and/or partner during sex
  • Anal acceptance and pleasure

 

Some of the modalities we would explore in sessions include:

  • The Wheel of Consent (Dr. Betty Martin)
  • Body Poem
  • Clean language
  • Body focusing
  • Breathwork
  • Nervous system regulation
  • Developing emotional fluency
  • Erotic embodiment practices
  • Genital and anal mapping
  • Self-pleasure coaching
  • The 5-step repair process (Cedar Barstow)

 

Sessions are client-centred and co-created. Consent and choice are the cornerstones of every session. We will move at the pace of your body and nervous system towards fulfilling your intentions and learning objectives.

Work Experience:

Certified Somatic Sex and Intimacy Coach and Sexological bodyworker with the Institute for Relational Harmony Studies.

Professional member of the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS).

Services & Offerings

Sessions are either in-person or online and are open to people of all gender expressions and sexual orientations.

Both individuals and couples are welcome.

Coaching sessions are 90 minutes

Bodywork sessions are minimum of 2 hours

In-person sessions are held in a beautiful space in Hackney Downs, East London.

If you’d like to connect then I invite you to send me an email or a Whatsapp and we can arrange a call.

 

Testimonials

Testimonials

 

" I have been working with Shanti over the last number of months. She has been working with me on finding my libido and rekindling my sexuality. She is a delight to work with, she is so warm and open-minded and accepting and always totally present. She has been incredibly supportive in helping me work through some of my shame around my sexuality and has taught me numerous techniques to help me understand how to communicate my needs. She is a joy to work with and I believe the work we’re doing is life-changing. I know that I feel much more connected to my body and more in touch with and positive about my sensuality, sexuality and my true self.”

John.


“I received coaching sessions from Shanti and have been integrating the work for the past couple of months. The sessions made a huge impact on my life, especially regarding my relationship to my body. Shanti holds an extremely strong & safe sacred space, and is an incredibly grounded and embodied practitioner. Throughout the container I was able to move through sexual trauma and cultivate body acceptance with her rock-solid support guiding me. I highly recommend working with Shanti to anyone who feels ready to dive into this type of work, she is phenomenal at what she does.”

P.


“I had the most beautiful experience working with Shanti. Through a combination of online and in person sessions she guided me with such grace and emotional sensitivity to truly come into a much more embodied, empowered space within my intimate experience of my own self-pleasure practice alongside how I relate to others. I now feel so much more connected to the subtle sensations and signals from my body telling me to slow down and listen and I also feel so much more able to communicate my needs to anyone I am connecting with intimately. I have learnt to deeply honour my body and the experience stored within my cells. I always felt so deeply held and safe within our sessions. My capacity to surrender and release very subtle and nuanced emotional experiences was supported so beautifully by Shanti.”

Anne.


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